She Who Is Dangerous to Me (2023)

Serie cinese di media (giusta) lunghezza che promette un protagonista maschile freddo e spietato e, una volta tanto, mantiene la parola.
Yan Xing Cheng mi ha ricordato per certi versi i protagonisti di "Fall in love" e "Vincenzo": un'infanzia travagliata dalla quale emerge un uomo freddo, spietato e determinato, intelligente e calcolatore. Certo, la spietatezza di Tan Xuan Lin e di Vincenzo (protagonisti delle sopracitate serie) era un po' più accentuata, arrivando non di rado ad uccidere (i cattivi), mentre Yan Xing Cheng arriva a mostrare atteggiamenti decisamente aggressivi, ma mai fino a quel punto.
Brava, ma non spettacolare, l'interpretazione della protagonista femminile: il personaggio di Manning a volte evolve troppo rapidamente e in modo incoerente (alla sua prima comparsa nelle vesti dell'altra donna è paralizzata dalla paura, ma basta un niente e si trasforma in una donna sicura di sé e capace di salvare un importante compagnia da un crollo finanziario...pur essendo laureata in arte). Qualche falla ogni tanto c'è, ma la serie complessivamente merita di essere vista, anche solo per la chimica tra i due attori che funziona più che in molte altre serie (e infatti i baci sono numerosi, per la maggior parte non a stampo, come invece è lo standard delle serie cinesi). L'evoluzione del rapporto tra i due è piacevole da seguire, la trama di intrighi e misteri che li circonda anche seppur - appunto - non sempre coerente.
Personalmente avrei evitato la questione della sosia: difficile da motivare dal momento che non sono parenti - ancora più difficile da credere quando poi le rispettive famiglie sono comunque connesse - e sostanzialmente non fondamentale per l'obiettivo che evidentemente ci si poneva. L'errore sul rapimento lo si poteva motivare in altro modo e considerato che nessuno aveva più visto la vera Zin Yan da oltre 15 anni, una vaga somiglianza sarebbe bastata per spacciare la protagonista femminile per la giovane ereditiera. Una forzatura poco credibile e non così necessaria, insomma. Quanto meno la questione viene archiviata nella prima metà della serie e non va a inficiare il resto della storia.
Personaggi secondari apprezzabili ma non sempre interessanti. Il finale, o più precisamente gli ultimi 2-3 episodi sono stati un po' una falla: il protagonista, splendidamente coerente fino a quel momento, crolla come l'argine di una diga e la spietatezza lascia il posto a sguardi tristi e fiumi di lacrime: che questo crollo concida con la dipartita del nonno ha senso fino a un certo punto...Non crolla dopo l'evidente assassinio della giovane sorella, ma davanti alla morte preannunciata del nonno dovuta a una malattia terminale... Chiamiamolo effetto "ora sono davvero solo al mondo", ma a mio avviso non regge lo stesso. Sempre negli ultimi episodi, anche la chimica tra i due si intiepidisce, l'attenzione sembra rivolta unicamente a risolvere il grande mistero sul vero colpevole... Risoluzione che lascia un po' l'amaro in bocca: il colpo di scena - se voleva esserlo - non lo è stato, il ritorno di un personaggio dato per disperso ha solo peggiorato la situazione, rendendola ancora più assurda. La storia si chiude senza la sensazione che sia stata fatta giustizia. In conclusione, una buona serie che ha il pregio di avere un protagonista freddo e distaccato per davvero, quasi fino alla fine (e non una premessa che poi viene snaturata dopo il primo episodio come il più delle volte accade). Buon romance, intrighi non originalissimi e con qualche crepa di coerenza. Una visione che può starci, senza problemi.

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YOU HAVE TO WATCH IT BUT FIRST...

Despite what others think, I loved the drama. I'm sincerely so tired of how dramas usually start with the guy being ruthless at first then you never get to see his ruthlessness once he gets together with the girl. But this drama? It's consistent.

The intense male lead is what first made me interested in My Lethal Man, but as you watch it, you'll realize how perfect the girl is. I understand how most people couldn't wrap their minds with the idea that the girl looks exactly like the male lead's sister. To be honest, I had the same feelings at first. However, when you come to realize that they have been apart for 17 years without contact, you'll start to be more accepting towards the plot. You'll realize that yes, the guy indeed loves his sister with all his heart, however, he loves the idea of his sister when she was younger. He doesn't have any attachment to his sister's face or the way she looks now that they're older because he didn't spend his years growing up with her.

In terms for romance, this is where you'll see how the girl proactively fights for their love. She was the first one to confess, and at every point, she was unafraid to show her true feelings. When she says "I love you", she always follows up with the question, "Do you love me too?" (not in a pitiful and pathetic way but in a light-hearted way). With a keen eye, you'll notice how the guy is always the one who gets the better end in their relationship especially with how chivalrous the GIRL is- her always telling the guy she'll protect him, her willingness to accept the blame, her picking him up from work, her kissing his hand, and other details. You'll realize how the guy is always the one who feels giddy and kilig. The girl literally is his home.

Acting: Tbh, I think the guy effin' carried (not that the female lead didn't do well, she perfectly played her part too). I love how lethal and deadly he looks in most scenes. One thing you must take note of is his hair. You'll notice how the scene would play out with his hair and this little detail just the drama more enjoyable. Hint: hair when he's with the girl, and hair when he's going to the office or when he's on an errand alone.

Honestly, amazing directing. I love how when the male lead feels vulnerable, you don't see it right away, but you see it with the way he acts- through the way he slightly bends to hide his face in the girls neck to how he sits down on the floor to signify just how low he's become (or feeling).

Tbh, I loved the drama. It was a good one, but I hate how sometimes, I couldn't see the emotion on their faces due to the whitening filter. When shots are taken from afar, I can see how amazing the actors and actresses convey their emotions but during close up shots, I could't even see how the tears falls down their faces (sometimes, it just seemed as though they were trying to cry without the tears which makes it a bit funny). Oh how I could only wish Chinese productions won't feel the need to whitewash their actors anymore.

Hope to see more dramas like this😭

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give it a try!

Story-wise is good as it's not typical of cdrama w/ plot "twin sister" which ML doesn't even know at first. This is an exception bcs ML brings that girl himself and introduces her into the family (in order to take revenge). The fight scenes are also great, there are many ups and downs that make you sometimes feeling butterfly in your stomach and sometimes can't hold your tears. Few scenes are repetitive indeed, but I just let it slide as long as it's still related to the main story.
The plot's really intriguing. Both main leads protrayed their roles very well (especially ML). I wanna give standing ovation to ML bcs he's very versatile, he can be like a psycho/lethal, on the other hand clingy, sweet, and depressed.
There were many negative comments abt FL's acting, well I bet you'd be trembling if you were in her shoes, right?? with many eyes watching on you and ready to eat you alive. Hence I think shes good at expressing her emotion. She gradually has character development onwards.
After all, they make a great couple! smart bf x smart gf.
Let alone, there were a bunch of steamy kisses<3
oh ya the SFL keeps chasing after ML, but no worries, he has no interest upon her at all and is not being a villain at the rest of eps.
The osts fit the scenes, & easy listening!
lastly, YOU GUYS MUST WATCH IT.

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watch it for leads not for story but overall forgettable

After long i watched 8+ rated show with plot that made no sense from start to finish
I see lot of people bothered about how ML fell in love with someone who has face of a sister. Thats not a major problem at all. He had not seen his sister after she grew up and he came across that face only after she was dead.
Major problem of this drama is how disconnected the PLOT is and how the characters are.
1. FL thinks ML loved her doppleganger initially but has no qualms to hug him kiss him within few days. Like what! people would think twice if ML really loves her or her face!
2. ML and his intention of getting FL to his house and when everything is revealed hardly anything changes. ML could have just solved everything without involving FL.
3. There is no proper character arc. FL is artist but is good at being CEO within a day. i wish i was that smart.
4. ML changes from cold ,abusive person to sweetest within seconds after FL declares she will protect him . lol
5. There is literally no emotional scenes between ML and FL before she falls in love. She doesnt know anything about him. It really looks like Stockholm syndrome not a love story.

This show has too many unbelievable things that it becomes a comedy . I guess it became quite famous because of ML and their steamy scenes & macho scenes but if there is no proper base for characters and their relationship it hardly effects long time . I would rather have a show with no physical affection but good relationship build than watch this uff!
ML is quite good in acting not just look wise so i hope he does good content shows not such trashy fan service ones.

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I only watched for the sizzle between ML/FL

Honestly, I only watched for the hot ML and the hot, steamy moments between him and FL. I didn't care about the family intrigue at all because it's the same ole revenge-based plot that never brings anyone any happiness. They get their revenge at the expense of their relationship (and in ML's case, his sanity) and end up more miserable than before. So, there's nothing new in this drama - I fast forwarded through everything but the hot moments. I didn't like any of the family members except perhaps Grandpa.

At first, FL wasn't worthy of a guy like ML - she had no backbone whatsoever - but she finally found some gonads and started acting like she might be worthy of such a cool dude. In the end, I liked her because she showed strength of character when needed, and she was clearly more stable than ML, emotionally and mentally. Yeah, he was badass cool but was hanging onto his sanity by his fingertips. This, viewers, is the result of a life based on getting revenge. Apparently, he needed to lose everything to come to his senses. And where were his buddies when he was falling apart? Chasing some chick. FL, of course, had to run to his rescue, even after he'd shredded her heart in the episode earlier. Nice to see that FL knows how to forgive.

And, of course, in true C-drama fashion, we had to break this couple up and try marrying ML off to a red-lipped, obsessed hag named Tang Lin. I had hoped we'd be able to avoid this obsessed chick/business marriage troupe, but, nope, right in the middle, the Chinese came through and used one of their favorite templates. I thought a ML of this caliber wouldn't allow himself to be pressured into a business marriage, but no, he walked right down the aisle and handed the hag her flowers. It was a sick copy of his first engagement with FL. I do applaud FL for, once again, finding a backbone and going and getting her man right in front of the red-lipped hag and guests. This shouldn't have happened and didn't need to happen. It was purely added to follow the angst template.

But wait! The stupidity and troupes are not over - in episode 20, we've got to go through the old 'your daddy (unintentionally) killed my daddy so I can't be with you' nonsense. Geez, I want to pull my hair out with this one! It's the stupidest reason for breaking up in the book. Quite frankly, ML gets what he deserves in the following scenes (near insanity) since he's so stupid as to throw away the woman who loves him because of something that happened in the past between their daddies. Honestly, dude, let it go, and your life wouldn't be a crap sandwich right now. Yes, seeing him in this state was heart-rending, but he brought a lot of it on himself by pursuing this grand revenge scheme of his. I understand being devastated by your family being killed/broken up but seek counseling, not revenge. There's healthier ways to deal with your grief.

As for the other couples, I could care less if the red-lipped hag found happiness with another guy. Honestly, I was hoping she'd throw herself into the ocean and drown. Yep, I'm heartless, but I've watched too many of these obsessed chicks to feel any sympathy. They have no self respect - clinging to a guy that pretty much detests you. I really don't understand these chicks - why live a life of misery with a man that feels nothing for you just for the sake of 'possessing' him? She goes on and on, shouting 'I like him! I like him!' Yeah, so what? I liked Harry Connick, Jr. in my youth, but I knew there was no hope of getting him so you accept it and move on. Some people are just unattainable, ok? As for the love triangle, I personally think the bestie ended up with the wrong guy. Yeah, I liked his personality better (upbeat, talkative and cheerful), but I preferred the quiet guy. He needed her more.

And let me ask you - why in 90% of these C-dramas is the evil mastermind behind everything a woman? I guess the Chinese culture (or at least the screenwriters and directors) agrees with Kipling who said 'The female of the species is more deadly than the male.'

Lastly, I'd like to give credit where credit it due. For once, the Chinese costume designer dressed FL with class, not like a multi-colored clown or twelve year old. And it's interesting that ML suddenly began wearing sweaters when he was in his soft and fluffy mode following his breakdown - nice use of clothing to reflect emotional state. But, dang, there's nothing hotter than a man in glasses who knows how to do the Superman tie tug! That, alone, is enough motivation to watch this drama.

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This drama should have been named “A Stockholm syndrome handbook“.

This drama is a showcase of dissociative identity disorder characters and a demonstration of exemplary Stockholm syndrome case.

Plot: 4
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★★★★☆ Main idea:
--> I liked the overall idea, but the idea sadly wasn’t able to save the catastrophe that followed.
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★★☆☆☆ Logic:
--> The drama started of pretty good, introduced characters were intriguing and so was the initial plot. Because of the promising start, it was watchable up to episode 13, but then all the atmosphere and logic were thrown out the window and all the drama was left with were stupidly acting characters and no plot at all.
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★★★☆☆ Pace:
--> I got bored about halfway through.
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★★☆☆☆ Impression:
--> Not much intrigued.
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★★☆☆☆ Skip rate:
--> I skipped a lot in the second half, since the plot and characters has become so chaotic and hystericall, It wasn't worth the time.
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★☆☆☆☆ Annoying factors:
--> The number of irrational twists gradually escalated as the drama progressed, in episodes 13 to 16 the number of nonsensical plots reached its peak and finally ruined the impression from the whole drama.

Characters: 2
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★★★☆☆ Lead 1:
--> The ML is introduced like a dangerous and clever man. But the cleverness of this character fades out immediately once he abducts an art student, expecting her to become an economic mastermind overnight. When she gets scared of not being able to transform to a completely different person with a completely different education, skills and hobbies, instead of I don’t know, maybe help her a little, he just intimidates and chokes her every chance he gets – gee, I wonder why would she be scared, right? But even this intimidating part of this character fades pretty quickly as he turns in a caring and protective fiancé in a matter of literally one day… Hey man, do you have a split personality disorder or something?
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★☆☆☆☆ Lead 2:
--> The FL seems clever herself, but then she gets caught up in danger because of her similarity to other person and for some reason she feels guilty for surviving, agreeing to follow a strange and abusive man, leaving her family behind… Why…? Just why? I don’t call this clever at all, just call the police next time. Things get even funnier, when this intimidated art student with zero experience in management solves an economic crisis in the company - she has a supposedly ultra-clever and powerful man by her side and an army of employees to back her up, yet it’s her idea, what get things done, hooray! Oh, and the fun part continues – this one success leads her to a Stockholm syndrome, falling in love with the very man who abducted her, claiming he is the only one she has left – girl, what about your friends and family then? Oh I get it, you fell in love with him, because he stopped choking you? Yes, that must have been it.
And the first thing after she is allowed to return to her former life and family? A hysteric scene over losing the love of her life – wow, this man abducts her, threatens her, she is forced to near death situations because of the mess he drags her into, he almost kills a man before her eyes, but she’s hysterical over the fact she can’t be with him anymore? Not even mentioning how rude was it towards her family, not explaining a single thing to them, just be hysterical over some stranger. A really serious Stockholm syndrome here, you need a psychiatrist, girl.
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☆☆☆☆☆ Overacting:
--> There was no annoying overacting in the beginning (except for that pretty stupid FL friend), but from episode 13 it was like the drama was infected by some strange overacting disease, because several characters started acting up, stepping totally out of their characters just to throw a tantrum, both FLs decreasing themselves from grow up woman into 15-year-old hysterical fan-girls, who got dumped by their idol on valentine. It has become even worse towards the end, soon every single character in that drama was acting hystericall.
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★★☆☆☆ Acting:
--> I enjoyed the acting of Fan Zhi Xin – although the character he played was a showcase of dumb and dumber, he was able to hold just the right atmosphere for a pretty long time. I considered other actors skilled at first, but as the plot progressed, they just acted more and more hystericall, including Fan Zhi Xin, such a schame.
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☆☆☆☆☆ Annoyance level:
--> The most annoying thing about this drama was the inconsistency of its characters. Many characters were introduced one way, just to flip to a completely different personality in a whim. Clever people turned into clueless, abusive into caring, strong into pitiful, shy into commanding – almost every lead character went through at least one polar opposite transformation.


Background: 9
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★★★★☆ Soundtrack:
--> Liked it.
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★★★★★ Visuals (camera, scenery, visual effects, ...):
--> Absolutely loved it.
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★★★★★ Wardrobe (costumes, hairstyles, makeup, ...):
--> Absolutely loved it.


Rewatch value: 2,5
I assess this value based on impression, skip rate, annoyance level and overall preference.


Final verdict: 4
Despite everything, the drama had a right atmosphere and I pretty enjoyed it up until episode 13. Episodes 13 to 16 were a total cliché catastrophe, every second choice those characters made was worthy of a Darwin award for extreme stupidity. It totally ruined the drama for me. Towards the end all those characters just became more hystericall and those plots made less and less sense. Every episode closer to the end I was lowering my rating even further.

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A Good, Trashy Romance

If you're looking for a good, trashy romance, this is for you. Things don't make sense, there are plot holes everywhere, and overacting is a thing, but the chemistry between the leads is sizzling and that pretty much carries the entire drama.

I've watched Fan Zhi Xin in some of his support roles before, but he never really stood out to me. I was pleasantly surprised by him in this drama and will be looking forward to some of his future projects, hopefully, he will be able to land more lead roles after this drama. The ML is everything you want in a 'domineering boss' romance. He's introduced as cold, ruthless, and 'lethal'. They obviously took some inspiration from Vincenzo, he speaks Italian and improvises with his weapon of choice (instead of dangling villains off a building with a measuring tape, he uses his own tie).

The FL is slightly more vague. I can't say I connected with her the first few episodes, but as she grew in her confidence, she became more likable. I would have liked her character to be better defined, I felt like she was a side character to the ML.

But there is no denying the chemistry between the ML and FL. It sizzles. Those kiss scenes are fire. I could care less about all the plot holes and how many times I had to overlook things (like the fact that she's the doppelganger of his stepsister? Very weird) I really just wanted to see them be hot and sizzling on the screen together.

The drama is super tropey, and has some uncomfortable plot points but the main couple made this a thoroughly entertaining watch. If you're looking for a story where the plot makes sense, I recommend you to stay away from this web series, But if you're looking for an entertaining romance with all the typical tropes, I found this drama to be the perfect antidote for my current drama slump.

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MUST WATCH THIS DRAMA GUYS

The ending of this drama really satisfied me. All the questions of the story from 17 years ago finally got discovered and answered. The storyline and plot twist arranged perfectly and does not confuse me at all. At first, I felt weird when ML fell in love with FL who looks exactly like his sister but eventually I got to understand. There must be some differents from his sister because even the twins also have some differents. So I just accepted the flow of the story.

I fall in love with the chemistry between ML and FL and everytime they appeared I screamed loudly because their scenes really excited, intense, anxious and blushing HAHAHAHAHA! I love how ML protect and encourage the FL in the earlier episodes. I kinda felt touched when FL always preserve, consistent, and stronghold their relationship. She always stay by his side no matter what and support him ups and downs. She made him feel being loved again and not leave him alone. I love her character for being such a strong and supportive girlfriend.

I wonder why there are so many people commented bad about the actress? I think she really good in acting. She also expressed a lot and I dont feel cringe at all between the actor and actress even she is older than him. I love how she characterized both of the characters. I believe it is so hard to visualize two different characters at the same time but she did it very well. For the ML, I adore him so much since Our Secrets and he is genuinely good in acting. He has so many facial expression and when his face turned into resentful expression, I screamed so hard because he was so hot and handsome!!!

This drama will let you feel like a roller coaster because each episodes are really exciting and thrilling. If you guys wondering should watch it or not, I recommend you guys MUST watch it. This drama kinda like a hate to love relationship. It's worth in every episode. I'm not regret watching this drama and definitely will repeat to watch it again ><

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So Bad but So Good; I watch this drama not for the plot but the male lead.

"I fell in love with the most dangerous man, why can't I let go?"

The lyrics above definitely describes my feelings about the male lead in this drama. His character is indeed portrayed to be a typical "Dangerous Man" that is mysterious, dark, intense, and toxic. Ngl, if it's in a real life, he would've been canceled because he's such a red flag 😭. However in this drama, despite the toxicity, the male lead is also very charismatic, good looking, charming and intriguing that you can't help but fall in love with him. It's all thanks to the actor who has successfully delivered the character to be that attractive. His acting is top notch and is totally on point. I can say the male lead and the actor are the best part of this drama.

One more thing that I like about this drama is the romance between the male lead and female lead. They have great chemistry and there are a lot of steamy kisses. I read some comments saying they don't like the female lead character because she's clingy but I think I have different opinion about this one. Yes, the female lead is clingy and looks weak but she's not a passive person. She made the first move to pursue the male lead, confessed her feeling first, comforted the male lead and she always ensured the male lead that he wasn't alone. The female lead gave the male lead the sense of security and he could find solace in her. I think their characters complete each other.

As for the story, this drama obviously has many flaws. To be honest it has so much potential but unfortunately the writing is weak that there are many loopholes in the plot. I suggest you not to use your brain when you're watching this drama and you can ignore all the non-sense things.

Overall, I think this drama is not perfect but it's still worth to watch and I totally enjoy watching it despite all the flaws. As for rewatch value, I think there's possibility that I might rewatch it again only for the male lead (lol). However, if you're typical a so called "woke" person or if you're looking for a solid plot, this drama isn't for you.

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I am is Loveee with the Male Lead!!

The story is nothing new but the Male lead and his character is alone enough to watch the show...I was really bored with the sweet cute type of male lead found in every drama nowadays and this strong, aggressive, sexy and dominating but caring and lovable Male lead is what made me fall for this drama immediately and I was able to ignore many illogical things😂
The Female lead n her character disappointed me a bit with her cheesy dialogues and weak acting compared to the Male lead but their chemistry and their kissing scenes are on fire🔥If you are looking for romance than they will totally satisfy you!!
I wish the story was given more attention as it looked like the male lead carried the whole drama alone. Also loving a girl having a similar face as your sister gives a really weird vibe...Plus side characters are hardly used, FL's best friend is annoying as hell, I literally skipped majority of her scenes.
Overall if you don't put much expectation on the story and want to enjoy it for a heart throbbing Male lead and romance then you will definitely enjoy it and I totally recommend it.

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Honestly, I loved watching this drama. The storyline is new and refreshing. This drama is very unique n different from other C-Dramas I've watched till now.

It's not like those dramas where there's a cold-hearted ML n a cute, shy FL. Tbh, I find those dramas quite boring where the FL acts clumsily n the ML acts like he owns her.

The actors chemistry in this drama is mind blowing. OSTs and romantic scenes are on point.

Those who are figuring whether to watch it ir not, I'll tell you that it's definitely worth watching. Go ahead with it!

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Main Lead’s acting range is fantastic!

As is typical in dramaland the acting can often be subpar and a monotone, not the case here! The range at which the main male lead plays is expansive, from his cold ruthless revenge beginning there is a complete 180 with his expression of trauma and vulnerability so on pointe later in the show. I have to say it us impressive and a welcome change. So much more depth from him and the leading lady in My Lethal Man. Storyline is ok, the main thing that kept this show from being a solid 10 for me. There are a few plotholes and the flow of the business side of things doesn’t really make obvious sense, but to flesh that out it would have needed more episodes. The emphasis here though is not an office drama, which I did appreciate ultimately.

The chemistry between the leads was incredible and there is no shortage of passion, sexual tension and kiss scenes. It rates up there as one of the better cdramas for romance, I’d put it in ky top 5 for sure.

This is certainly a rewatch for me. 9.5/10.

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