What makes Ji Ying Ying so special?

Niu Wu Niang was telling her maid that whether JYY fails or succeeds, she wants her to die. Niu Wu Niang said that JYY and her are so alike - both don't believe in fate, both want to survive through their own efforts. But why does JYY have so many people who loves her (her parents, her friends and the man that she loves). Bruh....why don't you think back and consider what you have done to "survive"? JYY treats others with sincerity and smiles. How about you?