This series explores the polar differences between “respectful love” and “selfish love”.

There is great chemistry between the main leads which is a joy to watch. Ling Yi Zhou’s character is strong, sexy and domineering. He will ultimately face the consequences of his immature scheming, and obsessive manipulation of Xia Lin.

Xia Lin is a mix of strength and vulnerability. I enjoyed how she tried to fight her growing attraction to Yi Zhou. Her kindness shines through in her dealings with everyone.

The series examines whether the initial imbalance of power in their relationship can evolve into a truly respectful love, that helps each other to be the best version of themselves, conquering more obstacles than most will ever have to face.

The villains spiral downwards, acting out of grossly selfish love, further highlighting the theme. There are a couple of cliché tropes but it is still a lot of fun. Wen Li and Chu Yan are a great. The relationship between Chu Yan and Xiao You is sweet. The grandmother is a delight.

This is the only series I have watched three times (both season 1 and 2), so you can take that as a recommendation.