first things first, i really enjoyed this drama. the cast are amazing and very good looking.

the only things i disliked about the drama was gai feng. she's so annoying. like, she LITERALLY MANIPULATED SEN INTO MARRYING HER AND THE FAMILY IS OKAY WITH IT?????? What kind of parents allows that? i reallyyyyyy wanted sen with yuting so bad. also, she's loud for no reason. and I'm sooooo glad li bing's dad smacked the crap out of her.

i hated the fact that EVERYONE does jiang lin dirty. he likes a girl, she doesn't like him. okay fine. hong, same thing. my guy can't catch a break. no one considered his feelings when he gets dumped. jiang lin is one of most loyal characters on the show and he gets treated like crap. kicked out of a chair by his dad, that was messed up. but instead of talking to him, let's just physically hurt him. 🤌🏾

li bing's new wife irritated me. girl, if he doesn't want to call you mom, why does that bother you so much? weirdo.

mei's grandma was really unbearable to watch. so judgmental and a hater for no reason. and mei. but mei changed a whole lot. I'm happy for her character development.

tianhuai is a bad father but he has his good moments i guess.

liu biyan is patient AF. cuz i would have told the grandmother TF off and smacked her into next year for hitting me.

i honestly would have mei with xiangdong instead of tubby. this dude claimed he loved mei but cheated on her and got that girl pregnant. that's love? but she got a bit of karma cuz now she's a stepmother ☠️

oh yeah, F liu biyun's daughter. she leaves her child for like 3 years and now she wants to be a parent? girl, you were better off not having him. tbh.

my favorite character is jiang lin. out of everyone, he's my favorite. i just wish they didn't do him so wrong.